Mature
And Immature Love
Love has many facets. Love is still a mystery and
every lover has his/her own story about love. What is mature love
and what type is immature/ Let us find out.
In immature love it is said that the person who falls
in love has low self-respect. He/she has little self-confidence
and finds a lover to see all the qualities that he/she misses
in themselves. The person does not love himself/herself, but loves
the partner with great fervor. This is called immature love.
Mature love - If a person has very high self-respect
and great self-confidence, he/she is supposed to be in mature
love. This is called mature love because it is expected that such
persons know what they are doing? They know why they love a particular
person and what they expect from the love.
In my opinion both these kids of love may fail equally
badly or survive against all the odds, because while talking of
love, we have to consider the partner also. I may be a very self
respecting person and may have fallen in love after lot of deliberation.
That does not matter to my partner who may react in different
fashion as times passes. My success or failure does not depend
only on me, but also my partner.
Love defies all analysis. Why two persons fall in
attraction and become inseparable is a mystery. Very contrasting
personalities may love each other for all the life and very similar
partner may fall out of love in a short time. It is the very nature
of love that makes it a subject of so much investigation.
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