Romance
And Romantic Thoughts
Being in love is one
of the greatest feelings. It is exhilarating. It is a dream, which
come true for few of us. If you have not professed your love,
how will the person you love know that you love him/her? What
are your outer signs that will tell the other person about your
feelings? Giving. In love a person gives to make the beloved happy.
If you have tried to find out what your beloved likes, you must
have tried all your best to give that to him/her.
You must have crossed
all barriers and used all the means at your disposal to give that
to him/her. Am I making sense? Let us discuss little more. For
example, if you come to know that your beloved is an avid collector
of coins. What will you do? If you are in true love, you will
begin searching the rare coins and getting them for him/her. The
cost will be no consideration in terms of time or money.
You will forget your
own work and will be obsessed only with coins. Search, buy and
present coins will be your main occupation. To see happiness on
your beloved's face when you keep giving coins to him/her you
will go to any extent possible. That is love. And that will tell
your beloved that you are in love with him/her. Now, how to know
if the person we love is in love with us? How to know that my
beloved reciprocates my love? Isn't the answer obvious? She/he
will try to please me. She/ he will not be satisfied by getting
the coins, but give me what I like. My darling would rather ask
me not to bother with the coins at all, but get happiness from
what she/he is giving me. Say for example, I love to add gadgets
in my car.
My darling will get
me as many gadgets as my car can carry. On the other hand, I will
on a coin-searching spree. That is love all about. It may sound
crazy to those who have not experienced it, but it is the only
way a person in love behaves. Love
is obsession. Romantic love recognizes no boundaries or logic.
It is beyond all that. If you are in romantic love, your only
goal will be please your beloved, and if your beloved reciprocates
your love, his/her attempts will only be towards making you happy.
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