Should
Love Necessarily Get Destroyed?
Recently I saw a post by a man on a forum saying that he was married
for twenty-seven years, but still could not stop thinking of his
wife all the time. He wanted to be with her and used to think
of her even during work. Some people suggested that he should
consult a therapist. Can you see the tragic question and the answers?
Here is a man who loves his wife after twenty-seven
years. He has heard so much about marital fights and break-ups
that he thinks something is seriously wrong with him. It is like
saying that I am healthy and do not fall sick at all. Please advise.
and some people may say, please go and meet a Doctor immediately
to find out why you are not falling sick and please fall sick
as early as you can.
We are living in negativities. We are losing our
balance of mind and our thinking ability. Why should we make ourselves
as a number and wonder if we are not falling the statistical groups
and results that predict doom for a marriage after twenty-seven
years. The man should be rather delighted and thank God. His wife
should feel very lucky and both should begin helping others keep
their love alive for a long period. Such a blessing is rare in
todays world. But it is the negative discussion about break-ups
and divorces that make a sane person ask such questions.
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