What
Is Love?
What is love? This looks a very simple question. Is
it that simple? We all talk so much about love, read so much about
love and use the word love so carelessly. What is love? Think
for a minute? What is love? Is it a relationship? Is it an emotion?
What is it?
Let us explore. Let us first examine what it means
to fall in love, or what happens to a lover who falls in love.
Then we can carry on from there. A look at the face, and you can
detect if someone is in love? The eyes look dreamy, the smile
comes on many times, sometimes you will hear a giggle, all while
the lover is alone. It may be some recollection of days gone by.
Or you will observe the excitement of meeting the beloved. The
work is finished fast, or postponed, eyes shine bright and look
excited thinking of the time ahead, the pulse visibly goes up,
and the walk is very fast, in a hurry to meet the beloved. To
meet, share and walk hand in hand. Why? Love. But what is love?
Ask someone to explain, and you will get an answer
such as he/she is dearest to my heart. I feel heavenly. He/she
is absolutely great. We cannot think of life without each other.
If anything happens to my beloved, I will die. Oh, I feel so good
when I am with my partner, I cannot describe. You will hear all
these and many more such rambling answers. But nothing specific
about what precisely is love. Is this making sense?
Let me try answering this query. Love is an emotion
that binds one person to another in a relationship that cannot
be described. Lovers are worried only about making their beloved
happy. Those in deep love cannot stay away even for a small time.
They are ready to forget and sacrifice most of their other relationships
for the sake of their love. They are ready to die for each other,
and history tells us that sometimes it really happens. Love is
an emotional relationship that can never be described, but can
only be experienced. Try explaining the taste of sugar, to someone
who has never tasted anything sweet. You will never be able to
do it. For that the other person has to eat sugar. Similarly,
love can never be explained. One has to fall in love to know of
its bliss. Please do so at the earliest opportunity.
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