Satisfaction
In Marriage
There are very few marriages, where both the partners
are satisfied fully. Go around and make a small survey. The results
may look shocking but they are true. Everyone has one or the other
complain about the married life.
The dissatisfaction may be many areas. It might be
the home they are living in. It may be that the husband does not
help the wife in household chores. The husband may complain that
the wife is not helping him in growth of his career. It may have
to do with difference of views about spending and saving. You
will hear complain after complain and may wonder how people stay
together with so many complaints?
The dissatisfaction may be emotional. She is not
bothered when I am feeling unhappy and she will reply that even
he does not bother. Getting physical satisfaction is now a distant
dream. Going to places to enjoy with each other is long past.
It is watching television at home and somehow killing time. Some
people even dread holidays, because they may have to stay with
wife all the day. There will be doubts about each other's friendships
and a bundle of complaints about how I am suffering but no one
is simply concerned.
Why the communication lines have broken down so badly?
Why are spouses not satisfied with each other? It is difficult
to say. But this problem can be solved with little effort. Let
them sit together and write all their complaints on a paper. Exchange
the papers and discuss about everything. Decide that from now
onwards, I will try and satisfy you in all the possible ways.
If you still have to say something to me, tell me after a month.
Give me a month's time. Keep the talks on through out the month
and determine that we will bring back cheer in our life again.
We will bring happiness back and become a model couple. This decision
itself will change a lot immediately.
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