10
Signs of Happiness
Though
it may come in different forms for different people, most human
beings are in pursuit of the same thing: happiness. It may be
closer than you imagined.
For some, happiness can be a pesky, fair-weathered
friend, forever on the loose. The fact is that you have everything
you need for happy living right now! Seeing it may simply be
a matter of tweaking your own thinking so that you can appreciate
what you’ve already got. Look for these signs and say
hello to happiness!
1. You Live Your Life With Integrity
Living
a life that’s in line with your own values and belief
is important for happiness. “That means that the things
you say you believe in are the things you do,” says “Happy
Guy” David Leonhardt, the author of Climb Your Stairway
to Heaven: the Nine Habits of Maximum Happiness. For example,
if you value the environment, do you mind your carbon footprint?
Or if family is important, do you make time for them? Figure
out what’s important and live your life accordingly.
2. You’ve Embraced Living In The Moment
You’re
fully awake and aware, and concentrate your energies on enjoying
the present, rather than worrying about the past or the future.
“All we have is right now,” says Michelle Keeley,
an executive leadership coach with Fruition Strategies, “and
life is just made up of a series of moments.” Enjoy them.
3. You Express Gratitude Regularly
Being
grateful for the things you have—and sharing that gratitude—will
lead to feelings of satisfaction and happiness. “When
you’re performing an act of kindness or giving someone
a compliment, you can actually feel an energy shift in your
body,” says Todd Keeley, Michelle’s brother and
business partner. Seek that feeling out more often.
4. Your Work Satisfies You
If
you find satisfaction in the things you do, then you’re
well on your way to living a happy life. “The more meaningfully
we’re engaged and the more we believe that what we’re
doing is meaningful, the more happy we are,” says David
Mensink, a psychologist with the student counseling centre at
Dalhousie University. And it doesn’t necessarily have
to be linked to a career. “For example,” says Mensink,
“you can be meaningfully engaged in caring for children,”
5. You Enjoy Harmonious Relationships
Whether
it’s at work or at play, being at peace with yourself
and the world around is a surefire way to find happiness. Practice
respect and patience as you go about your day, whether you’re
interacting with family, co-workers or with your partner.
6. You Keep Your Inner Critic On ‘Mute’
If
you’ve got a little voice in your head telling you you’re
never good enough and you’re never satisfied, then odds
are good you won’t find happiness either. “Choose
to let go of negative feelings and thoughts,” says Todd
Keeley, “You won’t find happiness until you do.”
7. You Aren’t Afraid Of Change
Recognize
that change is constant and you’ll be more ready to embrace
happiness. “Then choose to respond to life, rather than
react to it,” says Michelle Keeley. You’ll feel
more in control and will be better able to adapt. Stay open
to the opportunities change can bring.
8. You Enjoy The Simple Things
Taking
pleasure in small things will help you build a big picture of
happiness. Take time to enjoy a well-cooked meal, a beautiful
painting or a spring bulb poking up through the earth.
9. You Give Back
Happiness
is contagious, so make sure you spread it around. “Giving
back to others and sharing is the ultimate way to inspire happiness
in your life,” says Michelle Keeley. “Because what
you give out will come back to you ten-fold.” Whether
you volunteer in your community or share your smiles—it
all counts.
10. You Don’t Take Life Too Seriously
Having
a sense of humour can help you keep things in perspective. Make
sure your life is filled with plenty of laughter!
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